When you're done with infertility: Starting a family through gestational surrogacy

Surrogacy is a rarely-discussed option for family formation. Learn more about what it is like to start a family with a surrogate.

Many women with hormonal imbalances like PCOS and endometriosis are able to conceive naturally. However, there are unfortunately still cases where this is not possible: either because of a severe hormone imbalance, inhospitable uterus, problems on the male-side, and countless other reasons.

We’ll be talking about gestational surrogacy today and how it helps many women and men achieve their dreams of having a family.

While it may not be the path you imagined for yourself for parenthood, starting a family with a surrogate is a monumental journey like no other between those wishing to become parents (intended parents) and a gestational carrier (surrogate or surrogate mother).

What is gestational surrogacy?

Gestational surrogacy helps those who are unable to have children become parents. It’s a process that requires medical and legal expertise, as well as a strong support system throughout the journey.

Surrogacy is a method of assisted reproduction where intended parents work with a gestational surrogate who will carry and care for their baby(ies) until birth. 

Through IVF, embryos are created in a lab at a fertility clinic. Sometimes the intended parents use their own genetic material. Sometimes, an egg donor is required. At the fertility clinic, 1-2 embryos are implanted into a gestational carrier, who carries the baby(ies) to term.

Gestational carriers have no genetic relationship to the children they deliver.

If conceiving or carrying a healthy baby to term is out of the question for you - and if finances permit - surrogacy is an excellent way to start a biological family.

Who uses surrogacy to have a baby?

Surrogacy helps many individuals and couples have the baby(ies) they’ve always dreamed of.

Intended parents come from all different backgrounds, from all over the world. Those who use surrogacy include:

  • Heterosexual couples who have struggled with infertility
  • Intended mothers who are unable to carry a child
  • Intended parents who have a genetic defect or health condition they don't want to pass onto the child
  • Same-sex intended parents who want to have a genetic link to their baby

Every surrogacy journey is unique, just like the intended parents. And while it can feel like a complicated process at first, it’s one that allows intended parents to have a biological connection to their child. 

Kristin Marsoli

Marketing Director at Circle Surrogacy and Parent Through Surrogacy

Kristin Marsoli joined Circle Surrogacy in 2017 as Marketing Director. Prior to this role, Kristin worked at advertising and marketing agencies creating successful brand, digital and social campaigns for clients. Her personal experience brought her to Circle Surrogacy: Kristin and her husband are proud parents to their son thanks to Circle Surrogacy. Having been through the process, Kristin brings an experienced perspective to all of Circle Surrogacy’s communication and marketing, and is excited to use her marketing expertise for something for which she has so much passion.